I’ve moved to a new home! After a good deal of consideration and fussing over hosting and whatnot, I can now be found at http://heartbreaknympho.com ! (RSS feed can be found at http://feeds.feedburner.com/heartbreaknympho) Please make sure to update your feeds and links! Thanks a lot!
(You can tell I’m excited because of all the exclamation marks ;) )
I’ve added an addendum to my Tantus Feeldoe Original review, for anyone who’s interested to know. I tried it out on the Actor (as opposed to just using it on myself) so I had a lot more to say about it.
In the Actor’s classy bathroom. I was about to take a shower when I got distracted by the huge mirror and glass shower cubicle, and decided that I had to take some pictures.
There’s something to be said for glass shower cubicles, I think.
HHNT :)
Finally done with exams. I’ve been spending the last few days hanging out with the graduating seniors ( :( ) and visiting alums, watching anime, and basically being a lazy bum, but I can only do that for so long. Ironically, I look at my summer break thinking, “great! now I can do all this reading that I wanted to do without any academic pressure.”
One thing I really regret about my college education is that I never took a gender studies or queer theory class. (I know, surprising, right?) So I checked out/ordered a bunch of books that I’ve been wanting to read for a while, or were recommended by my lovely Tweeps. :) Here they are:
I might be rambling about some of them, the less academic ones most probably.
I’m also thinking of investing in a good rope bondage instructional/informational book, but not sure which the most appropriate one would be to get. I can see myself very much enjoying the art and aesthetics surrounding rope bondage, once I get over the frustration of sucking at tying knots.
Have you read any awesome books on kink, queerness, gender, sexuality, or what have you? Leave a comment :)
My HNT: Spanked post was featured in this Sugasm! Thanks for the votes everyone! :)
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #168? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
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Every Time You Orgasm, An Angel Gets Its Wings
“There is nothing that screams “fuck you” to the pain and the hurt in the world than screaming “fuck me” to the person in your bed.”
HNT: Spanked
“I wasn’t sure how I felt about him. But tonight, I was sure.”
A Thousand Kisses
“This wasn’t enough. I knew that I had to try something else.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Congratulations, you’re invited!
Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Honesty: Religion
Editor’s Choice
Food, fun and commitment
Cuddling in bed after sex is possibly one of my favorite things about sex. Just laying there, talking or drifting quietly off to sleep while enjoying one another’s closeness.
That’s what me and Girl were doing yesterday, in her bed at 6 in the morning, after having sated each other. I flopped over, with her spooning me and her arm flopped over my waist, and we settled in to sleep.
And then it started.
I started fidgeting. My head was resting weirdly on the pillow and I knew I was going to get a crick in my neck the next day if I stayed like that. So I wriggled a little further down the bed.
But then my throat started itching. Like, really really itching. I tried swallowing a few times, but there was no stopping it – I coughed hard for a good few seconds. She lifted her arm off of my body as it shook with my coughing, then replaced it.
… And then my stomach started making weird noises. I hate it when that happens. I’m sure everyone has experienced this – your stomach or throat make really odd, involuntary noises and you want to announce to the room no I am not passing gas it’s just my stomach! but of course you can’t actually do that.
Luckily by this time her breathing had started to slow and become more regular, so I guessed she was already asleep. I, on the other hand, lay in self-concious half-wakefulness for at least an hour.
Girl herself is quite a polite bedpartner. She snores sometimes, but I just find that oddly cute.
I’ve shared beds both platonically and sexually with quite a few people, and it’s always interesting how much you can learn about them from their bed-behavior. You have your blanket-hogs, and sprawlers, snorers, and kickers. My lovers specifically have snored like chainsaws, have left promptly afterwards, have slept with their legs Indian-style and their upper body flopped over their legs (I still don’t know how that’s comfortable), have been tall lanky men who kept almost squeezing me off the bed, have chosen to sleep on my floor instead, have clung and wound themselves around me.
Regardless of this… diversity, I still think there’s some unspoken bed-etiquette rules that make me jerk awake when I’m about to do something that I think is inappropriate.
Eh. Whatever. I still love cuddling.
While I tried (half-heartedly, I admit) to resist, I’m jumping on the bandwagon and taking part in Sextoys.com’s shopping spree draw. Participants make up a wishlist of items coming to $1000 in value, and the winner gets everything on said wishlist. The deadline is tomorrow. Yay last minuteness!
So here’s my list:
Grand total: $997.05. Phew!
Click here if you’d like to participate!
WOW. I’m posting this the earliest I’ve ever posted any HNT… but I’m really excited about posting it. It’s not the most creative I’ve done – in fact it’s probably the quickest one I’ve taken – but personally I think it’s pretty sweet.
Last weekend, I got spanked for the first time.
If you’ve been keeping up with my blog/Twitter/anything, you’d know about how long I waited for this to happen.
“Lay down on your stomach,” he said.
I was surprised – mostly because I thought he was submissive. I knew he liked me a very long time ago, but never acted on it. I wasn’t sure how I felt about him. But tonight, I was sure.
I lay down, naked, on my stomach, with my face in my pillow. I wondered what he was going to do. The only two men who I’d trusted enough to confess my spanking fetish to, without being embarrassed, had failed miserably when they had attempted to inflict pain on me. And this man, who was primarily submissive…
Crack.
He was using my plastic, cheap Bank of America ruler on me. He taunted me as he did, calling my ass too white, trying to find excuses to punish me, asking me about my experiences with D/s. In fact, he was taking a lot of ideas from me, when I had dommed him just ten minutes before.
He varied his pace, landing several on me at a time, or taking it slow and tantalizingly, giving me time to catch my breath and let it sink in between strokes. My ass hurt but I still knew I could take so much more. I gasped, panted, and cried. He scolded me when I moved my hands from in front of me, so I crossed them underneath me instead.
Then he asked me to lay across his lap, and spent several minutes working me with his hand.
I fell into kink-love. He was the antithesis, physically, of what I was typically attracted to, but the things he wanted to do to me, and the things I wanted to do to him… it was a match made in heaven.
When I woke up the next day, I saw that numerous pieces had snapped off of the ruler while he was using it on me, and now lay across the floor.
The day after that, I had a small red blush across my ass where he’d hit me. It stung when I sat down, or when my backpack pressed against the spot.
It felt wonderful.
The day after that, a bruise began to form, and I stared at it, fascinated, in my bathroom mirror.
Please. Give me more bruises.
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #167? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Bare-Assed Cheek (2): Punishment and Reward
“His finger glides up the inner side of my left thigh.”
Lilly’s Turn – Part 1: Wherein a Power Play is Made
“I asked her, outright, if she considered herself submissive.”
…please…
“Exquisite pain heralding exquisite surrender.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Is Sasha Grey going mainstream?
Sugasm Editor
A Difficult Scenario
Editor’s Choice
Just Looking
Found via The Alexa Collection photographer unknown.
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Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus St.Syr
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I’ve reviewed four sets of pelvic exercise balls: Fun Factory Teneo Uno, LELO Luna Beads, Fun Factory SmartBalls, and Fun Factory Teneo Duo. Here is a comparison of four sets by their size, materials, stimulation level, ease of insertion and features.
Note: This is a wonderful comparison of the four major pelvic exercise balls out there. It’s very basic in many ways but covers the topic well and gives a lot of wonderful details.
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